Know your CHICA

I quite often hear Men/boys saying " I don't know what she wants"  Referring to their wife/Gf , but i never hear them saying " I tried finding what she wants but I am still not able to figure it out" which makes me wonder did they even try??? I understand and know females  are little complex compared to their counterpart Males but its not rocket science.

Men are simple , they don't care much about things , don't easily feel bad  as their expectations are always low, don't get affected with happenings around them and comparatively have better reactions !!
Females on the other hand care about every small thing , feel bad easily as they always expect more than they should , get affected even if a friend buys a Da Milano bag and she doesn't own one yet and fret over  lot of things.

No doubt there is a contrasting difference between these two species but that's what needs to be understood and  accepted.
Maybe you need to put in little extra effort in trying to decipher what is she saying , not just once but twice or maybe more than that til the time you actually start understanding and making sense of the few said , few unsaid words.
She puts in that effort, when you watch the test cricket match over the weekend and she orders in your favorite snack , when you don't know what to wear and she helps you finding the right tie for the meeting and it goes on.
So why cant you??
These are few basic characteristics every female has , you master these and you ll never have a complaining lady!

1. They are Sensitive : You cant blame them for this , its a gift!  But few men understand this. There are 2 kinds here:
a. The first one who is very strong and doesn't show it to the public/people around her , they wont accept it in the first go but ask them twice and they ll melt down. But don't be mistaken with their strong persona.
b. The 2nd type is Little extra feminine/ sensitive and doesn't mind hiding her emotions in public etc, you need to be nice to them at that weak moment and don't make them feel "what the hell are you doing"
Don't ever step on your lady's emotion . That's the thumb rule!

2.Talkative: Yes, they like talking their heart out. About anything ranging from what they shopped, or how excited they are about their friends wedding or when they are simply complaining . Just listen to them , don't hear and ignore, LISTEN, I am assuming you very well know the difference.
It comforts them, when you listen to they feel accepted , cared , loved.

3. Conscious: Women are very conscious, they want to look good.  They are concerned about their weight unlike men who actually like to flaunt their Bellies. So respect them for being conscious and help them make and attain a realistic target if they are in the process of weight loss.
When they ask you " how am i looking" which might happen like everyday, don't go overboard because they ll catch you. If you feel she is not looking good you can try using this " This is just ok , you look better in XYZ" . Don't forget to compliment them, they Love it but please don't go overboard and don't use cheesy lines !! Strictly NOO

4. Let them SHOP: If they love anything in this world after YOU , its shopping , let them do that. Its like a therapy for them. The way you feel  when you go out with you friends for a drink , they feel when they get your credit Card/ or their own salary and freedom to Shop.
If in-case she is a shopaholic you can say this " why don't you try saving for few months and buy some good Jewellery for yourself " She might RE think!

5.Pamper them: Owing to their very basic nature they love getting pampered/cared by their man. They even flaunt this, so in the end you are only getting good points from friends and family.
It need not be extravagant , get her flowers some time , plan a dinner and just ask her to dress her best ,
when she is sick get her a bowl of soup and a Cd of her favorite movie, take her out for a drive and play her favorite music.

Is this all rocket science?????

In Addition you can try not forgetting her birthday,your anniversary !!

All the time we feel we don't understand the person , its just because we miss on these few small things which form foundation of their very basic nature.
Work on these characteristics and your lady wont ever bother you ( I am not giving you any assurity but trust me things will become smoother and the relationship more stronger)

Though it requires Patience , little extra effort and lots of understanding its better than a Crying, shouting Lady!

And I don't think its too much of a effort  for the  woman you love the most.